Safety Tips

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Your safety is our top priority. Please read these tips before you begin.

At Gush of Love, we believe that finding genuine connections should be a joyful, exciting experience — and a safe one. Online dating is a wonderful way to find new people, but like any social interaction it requires a little common sense and care.

We have compiled these safety tips to help you stay protected online and in person. Whether you are new to online dating or a seasoned pro, we encourage you to take a few minutes to read through these guidelines.

1. Protecting Your Personal Information

Your privacy matters. Be thoughtful about what you share on your profile and in conversations, especially early on.

• Do not include your full name, home address, workplace, or phone number in your public profile.
• Avoid sharing financial information, bank details, or passwords with anyone you find online — ever.
• Be cautious about sharing your daily routine, exact location, or travel plans with someone you have just met.
• Use the Gush of Love messaging system to communicate until you are comfortable enough to share personal contact details.
• Use a strong, unique password for your account and enable two-factor authentication if available.

2. Recognising Scams & Suspicious Behaviour

Unfortunately, not everyone online has honest intentions. Learning to recognise warning signs can protect you from fraud, emotional manipulation, and scams.

Common Red Flags

• They profess strong feelings for you very quickly, often within days.
• Their profile photos look like professional model shots or appear on a reverse image search of other sites.
• They claim to be working overseas (military, oil rig, doctor with an international organisation) and cannot find in person.
• They ask for money, gift cards, cryptocurrency, or wire transfers for any reason — even emergencies.
• Their messages feel copy-pasted, oddly formal, or do not match what you have talked about previously.
• They push to move the conversation off Gush of Love to WhatsApp, Telegram, or email very quickly.
• They ask you to click links, download files, or visit external websites.

What to Do

• Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is.
• Report the profile immediately using the Report button on their profile page.
• Block the user to prevent further contact.
• Do not send money or gifts to anyone you have not met in person and known for a significant time.
• If you believe you have been the victim of fraud, contact your bank and report it to your local authorities.

3. Staying Safe Online

Even before you find anyone in person, there are important steps to take to protect yourself while using our platform.

• Keep your conversations on Gush of Love until you are confident in the other person’s identity.
• Do a quick Google search or reverse image search if you are unsure about someone’s identity.
• Never share intimate photos or videos with someone you have not met in person — they can be used to manipulate or embarrass you.
• Be wary of anyone who refuses to video chat or always has an excuse not to.
• Report any messages that are harassing, threatening, or make you uncomfortable.
• Use our Block & Report feature freely — it is anonymous and your safety comes first.

4. Meeting Someone in Person for the First Time

Deciding to find someone from online in real life is an exciting step. Taking a few simple precautions can make it a great experience.

Before You Go

• Video chat with them at least once before finding in person to confirm they are who they say they are.
• Tell a trusted friend or family member who you are finding, where, and when.
• Share the other person’s profile, name, and any contact details with someone you trust.
• Agree on a check-in time — ask a friend to call or text you during the date.
• Look up the venue in advance so you know the layout and nearby transport options.

On the Date

• Always find in a public place — a busy café, restaurant, or park. Avoid private locations for a first finding.
• Arrange your own transport to and from the venue. Do not rely on your date for a lift, especially on a first finding.
• Keep your drink with you at all times and never accept a drink that was poured out of your sight.
• Trust your gut — if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe at any point, it is perfectly okay to leave.
• Do not feel pressured to share your home address or go to a private location.
• Limit alcohol so you stay alert and in control.

5. Protecting Your Emotional Wellbeing

Dating can be emotionally intense. It is important to take care of yourself throughout the process.

• Take your time. You are never obligated to move faster than you are comfortable with.
• It is okay to say no to anything that does not feel right — finding up, sharing photos, continuing a conversation.
• If someone makes you feel pressured, guilty, or unsafe, that is a serious warning sign.
• Take breaks from dating apps if you are feeling overwhelmed. Your wellbeing comes first.
• If a conversation or interaction has left you feeling distressed, please reach out for support — see resources below.

6. How to Report & Get Help

We take all reports seriously and act swiftly to investigate any behaviour that violates our Community Guidelines.

Reporting on Gush of Love

• Tap the three-dot menu (⋯) on any profile or message and select Report.
• Choose the reason that best describes the issue (fake profile, inappropriate content, harassment, scam, etc.).
• Add any additional details that might help our team investigate.
• You can also block a user at the same time to prevent further contact.

Contact Our Safety Team

Email:  mail@gushoflove.com

Our trust and safety team reviews reports 7 days a week. We will never reveal your identity to the person you have reported.